Monday, October 29, 2007

My baby is 2

Carter turned two last month! I took him to Kiddie Candids to get our annual I'm-a-cheapskate free picture, and I can't believe how old he looks! I purposely chose a picture that shows off his missing front tooth, since that was a pretty big event for us this summer.

Carter is getting so big! He talks a ton - sometimes I can't get him to stop talking. And he makes me laugh all day with the funny things he says. Katelyn has a collection of coins that she carries around with her, so there's often money on the floor. Anytime Carter sees a coin, regardless of denomination, he says, "Wook mom, fif-teen dawas!" I don't know where he got fifteen, but that's what everything is. We went to McDonalds last week, and now he asks all day, "Go to McDono's mom?" He also points to every wall in the house and says, "Pain dis waw, mom?" He's seen us do nothing but paint for months now. Oh, and I love that he sings now. He sings Twinkle, Twinkle all day and the way he pronounces the words is adorable. He also loves to ask, "Guess what, mom?" He doesn't understand that he's supposed to tell you something when you ask him "What?" so he just moves on to the next person and repeats the question.

Carter adores his big sister. If she's not in the room, he's asking where she is. He wakes up before she does, and when she comes walking out of her room in the morning he goes into hysterics yelling, "Katie's awake!" He wants to do everything she does. He even goes on the potty now. He's not potty trained, but at least once a day he tells me he needs to go. He can take off his pants and diaper and get himself up onto the big potty. He delights in flushing when he's done and then climbing onto the stool to wash his hands like his big sister. (We got him underwear, but he refuses to wear it, and he's really not ready, so we're not pushing the issue right now.)

One of my favorite things about my little boy is how lovey he is. He always asks for hugs. If he hugs one of us, he has to hug everyone, so we'll be walking into a store and he'll say, "Hugs, dad. Hugs, Katie. Hugs, mom." He has to get a hug from everyone at least once, then kisses, before he'll stop the cycle. He's getting more independent, and insists on walking most of the time, but when he's tired he'll come up to me and say, "Hode you, mom." He stretches up his little arms and this means that he wants me to pick him up. It just tugs at my heartstrings.

Of course I can't help but get nostalgic on my kids' birthdays, so I've been looking at all of our pictures of Carter from the last two years. I thought I'd share a few with you.



I am delighting in watching my children grow and develop. They fight a lot now, but for every minute of fighting, there's a minute of enjoying each other so much. Katelyn reads Carter a story almost every night now. They'll sit on the couch together while I get ready to put them in bed. It's so sweet to hear Katelyn's version of the story they've chosen, and to see how attentive he is while she turns the pages. I love being a mom.
Happy birthday, Carter!

Monday, October 22, 2007

This is how I want my life to be

It's 9 pm. My house is clean, my children are asleep (thanks entirely to my awesome husband!), and I've got laundry going, not because I'm behind, but because I'm trying to stay ahead. John even has a closet full of ironed shirts to choose from. I worked out on the elliptical machine this morning, read to the kids, spent the day doing little activities with them, walked to the park (with Lucy - yeah!), did the grocery shopping, and made a yummy dinner. I wish every day could be like this, but for me, that's a pretty lofty goal.

I know that we all feel the same pressure that has been weighing on me so much lately - to be the perfect wife and mother, a "mother who knows" and can distinguish between "good, better, and best." My biggest concern right now is that I'm letting my children down, that I'm not nurturing enough. I am trying to figure out how to be the best possible mother to them. I'll get into this more later, but it explains why I have gone almost a month without posting to my blog. I'm trying to find the perfect balance in my life between taking care of my family and doing things for myself.

Now with that said, I have some things to catch up on. Happy reading!

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Happy 35th, Sweetie!


In honor of my cute husband's 35th birthday, here are 35 of my favorite things about him:

1. John delights in playing with the kids, and they love it more than anything!
2. He’s the smartest man I know.
3. He is the ultimate optimist.
4. He has a green thumb, and has turned our dead, dry lawn into a lush carpet of green.
5. He is very modest – he’ll hate this list!
6. He shares my love of nice shoes.
7. He’s always on time (unless I make him late).
8. He’s a cautious driver.
9. He pretends that every meal I make is the best he’s ever eaten.
10.He always lets me choose the restaurant when we go out.
11.He loves to learn. This has led to 3 post-graduate degrees and a ton of student loan debt, but it will be worth it someday!
12.He’s a very talented writer.
13.He’s always trying to make me laugh – and usually he succeeds.
14.He’s passionate about fishing.
15.He makes waffles almost every weekend.
16.He spends time with me every night, no matter how tired or busy he is.
17.He never complains when the house is a wreck.
18.He’ll make a fool of himself if it will make me laugh. He once put on a ridiculous outfit and walked all the way across TJ Maxx to find me. I’ve never laughed so hard in my life!
19.He is the best travel companion. We have awesome memories of trips to Mexico, Europe, New York, and Boston, to name a few. My favorite memories are of the Czech Republic.
20.He is a very thoughtful gift-giver.
21.He watches stupid t.v. shows like The Bachelor with me, just so that we can spend time together.
22.He loves movies!
23.He’s a very sharp dresser.
24.He is so handsome! I have thought he’s the best-looking man in the world since I first laid eyes on him 12 years ago.
25.He is very health-conscious. He works out regularly, and is better at eating healthy than I am.
26.He supports me in everything that I do.
27.He is a hard worker! He comes straight home and gets to work on the yard and the house, then studies until the last hour of the night, which he spends with me.
28.He loves great literature, and has influenced me to read great things that I may not have otherwise.
29.He writes poetry for me.
30.His car is always immaculate, inside and out.
31.He loves his mother – he talks to her almost every day and would do anything for her.
32.He babysits my friends’ children so that I can go do things with my friends minus the kiddos.
33.He’s very athletic. He takes the kids running regularly. He’s also an excellent golfer and a great snowboarder, but he rarely does these things because they cost money and take him from his family.
34.He’s a loyal friend. He still sees his best friend from high school and keeps up with people he used to work with.
35.He always puts his family first.
I love and appreciate you so much, hubby. I hope this list doesn't embarrass you. I just wanted to share with everyone what a wonderful guy you are. Happy belated birthday!

Friday, September 28, 2007

Just for fun

This is what happens when:

  • You finish eating and decide to work on your fun new blog posts while your children take 45 minutes to finish their dinner

  • Your 3-year-old drops her spoon and repeatedly asks for a new one but you're busy so you keep nodding and mumbling "uh-huh"

  • Your 2-year-old decides to pick up the slack for mom and get out of his booster seat so that he can get a clean spoon for his poor, neglected big sister

  • You don't notice your 2-year-old carrying piles of silverware from the drawer to the table
Note the giant collections of silverware next to the kids' plates while Carter finally decides to eat his pasta.

Tagged Again!

I'm so excited! I've never been tagged before, and now I have been twice in one day. This is really cool because I've been so stressed out this week and sick the week before, so it's been forever since I've blogged. This is a fun way to put something new on my blog. Thanks for the tag, Becky!

Four jobs I've had:
1. cashier at Shopko
2. shirt presser at the BYU laundry
3. bank teller
4. Assistant branch manager @ WAMU

Four movies I could watch over and over:
1. The Man from Snowy River
2. Notting Hill
3. Best in Show
4. Say Anything

Four places I've lived:
1. Brigham City, Utah
2. Columbus, Ohio
3. Spokane, Washington
4. Salt Lake City

Four favorite t.v./reality shows:
1. Big Brother
2. The Office
3. Dancing with the Stars
4. Trading Spaces

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Lasagne
2. Brownies
3. Steak
4. Snow Crab

Four websites I check daily:
1. WAMU for our bank accounts
2. My friends' blogs (actually about 10 websites)
3. Salt Lake County Library (I'm a library junkie, too, Becky)
4. Juno for email

Four hobbies I enjoy:
1. Music (playing the piano & singing & listening)
2. Sewing
3. Walking
4. Watching t.v. & movies with my husband

Four people I'll tag:
1. Julie
2. Stephanie
3. Alisa
4. Becky Cole

My Better Half

OK, Elise, I'm not sure if you meant to tag me, because you have two Melanie's on your blog, but I'm going to pretend you did because this looks fun. So thanks for the tag, and here goes:

What is his name? John William (When we were first getting to know each other, he told me his middle name was after William Shakespeare. I'm not sure if that's what his parents intended, but it sure fits him.) How long have you been together? We've known each other for about 13 years. We've officially been a couple for 9 years, and we've been married for 6 years. How long did you date? Off and on for 4 years, then 3 years exclusively before we got married. How old is he? He'll be 35 next month. Who eats more? Definitely John. I eat a ton, but I can't even compete with him. Who said I love you first? I did. Who is taller? He is, by about 7 inches. Who sings better? He would agree that I am the musical one. Who is smarter? He is. Don't tell him I said that. Whose temper is worse? I think I'm quicker to anger, but we seem to be about even. Not sure if he'd agree on that one. Who does the laundry? I do. I actually really enjoy folding laundry, just not climbing up and down the stairs with it. Who does the dishes? Me, but more often than not, he has to pick up the slack for me. So maybe I should say that he does? Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? John. Who pays the bills? I do. Who mows the lawn? John does all of the yard care (at least until next year when I have flowers and a garden) and he is awesome! He brought our yard back from being basically dead and he's gotten grass to grow where there was just dirt a few months ago. And he edges and everything. We get lots of compliments on our yard. Who cooks dinner? Usually me, but it's my turn since he brought us lots of dinners all year in Spokane. Who drives when you are together? We share the driving, depending on who is tired or who feels like driving. Who is more stubborn? Both of us? Who is the first to admit when they're wrong? Hands down, John. But I'm working on it. Whose parents do you see the most? His. They live closer. Who kissed whom first? He kissed me. I was playing hard to get. Who asked whom out? I think my sister kind of did it for us. It's a long story. Who proposed? John. He wrote me a long poem, in iambic decameter, and read it to me on Thanksgiving in front of his whole family. Who is more sensitive? I am. Who has more friends? I think we're about even. Who has more siblings? I do. Who wears the pants in the family? I'm with Elise on this one. We both wear pants! And I absolutely married my soul mate. We are so different in so many ways, but we are a perfect match!

I tag: Becky Kump, Stephanie, & Cassie

Friday, September 21, 2007

Try this diet - it works!

I lost a few pounds this week and I'm so proud of myself! It's called the gastroenteritis diet. It involves a lot of stomach cramps, and absolutely no eating for 4 to 5 days. The good part about it is that you get to lie around and do nothing and let your house turn into a disaster zone.

OK, on a serious note, I feel like I've been missing for a long time! My children have been without a mother, my huband misses his best pal, and my house is in dire need of its maid. I started feeling sick on Sunday night, and by Monday afternoon I was in the throws of the stomach flu. It's been a long week, but I awoke this morning feeling somewhat human, and I am excited to get back to my life. So of course the first thing I need to do is to update my blog! You know I'm not feeling well if I can't even blog. Yesterday was the first day I even had the energy to sit at the computer, and I realized how much I had missed when I started catching up on my favorite blogs. This led me to some pretty cheesy thoughts, so allow me to wax sentimental for a moment.

I was reminded this week that there is nothing more important in this life than people. I haven't cared about clothes, or possessions, and I'm sick to death of television. I haven't even had interest in food! But my relationships have been so important to me. My sisters took my kids for a full day, even though they've got their own hardships right now. My husband exhausted himself rushing home from work and doing absolutely everything for our family. My poor children were basically orphans all week, and they were so good! I spent the day yesterday just watching them and smiling. They are so precious, and I was in the perfect state of mind to enjoy watching their personalities unfold without getting frustrated with behavioral issues.

I can't discuss relationships without mentioning blogging. I have really missed the friendship and support that comes from reading my friends' blogs and getting feedback on my own blog. And with that, I'm done being cheesy.

We finished painting our living room on Saturday, and got it all cleaned up and put back together Sunday night. Since then, I've been dying to post pictures! Hopefully I can do that before the day is over.